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		<title>Bored People Die Younger</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the 1970s, the then-famous actor George Sanders shocked the world when he killed himself and left a suicide note that explained, &#8220;&#8230; I am bored.&#8221; Killing yourself is a pretty extreme response to being bored, of course, but several studies of late have found a startling connection between chronic boredom and early death&#8230; perhaps [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><div>In the 1970s, the then-famous actor George Sanders shocked the world when he killed himself and left a suicide note that explained, &#8220;&#8230; I am bored.&#8221; Killing yourself is a pretty extreme response to being bored, of course, but several studies of late have found a startling connection between chronic boredom and early death&#8230; perhaps a literal demonstration of &#8220;bored to death.&#8221; In one study, researchers conducted initial interviews in the mid-1980s with 7,500 civil servants in the UK. When they returned to update information about 25 years later, they found that people who had said that they were bored in the original screening were nearly 40% more likely to have died than those who found their lives more interesting. The same study revealed that people living with high levels of tedium were 2.5 times more likely to die of heart disease than those who did not. This is certainly an interesting demonstration of the powerful connection between mind and body.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Many people live with assorted states of boredom &#8212; and yes, some parts of life (paying bills, loading the dishwasher) are quite dull. But giving in to living a life that feels tedious can ultimately be very destructive, says life coach and <em>Daily Health News</em> contributor Lauren Zander. Boredom is a state of mind, she says &#8212; in her view, this truth is very, very powerful.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>The destructive part? People who are bored at work start showing up late, making mistakes and otherwise begin to act in ways that may eventually lead to the exit door (or at the very least, keep them stuck doing the same job without much prospect of advancement). Boredom can also destroy relationships&#8230; no longer excited about the other person, people quit paying attention to conversations or doing nice things for him/her &#8212; and some even use their boredom to justify having an affair. Boredom doesn’t strike only in romantic relationships, by the way &#8212; it can also cause you to take friends, siblings, even your children for granted.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Interestingly, boredom can even arise in areas where you have achieved success &#8212; precisely <em>because</em> you’ve succeeded. Say you have a wonderful job and you are on top of the career ladder, but you find yourself getting restless and, yes, bored. The reason is simply that you have attained mastery (and kudos to you!) and now it just feels like the same-old, same-old.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Boredom feeds on itself, breeding laziness and yet more dissatisfaction. When you’re bored, you do nothing, which leads to&#8230; being bored. If you are sitting on the couch being bored, you are not reading books that suggest new adventures or challenge your old ways of thinking. You aren’t out enjoying events and activities and interactions with others. You aren’t engaging in activities that are creative, fun, stimulating or enriching. Of course you’re bored!</div>
<p> </p>
<div>But flat as it may make you feel, Lauren doesn’t see boredom as one-dimensional at all&#8230; in fact, it has many layers, she says. If you find yourself saying &#8220;it is what it is&#8221; about your boring life, it’s partly out of laziness&#8230; partly indifference&#8230; and also likely has elements of fear and depression too. All this is wrapped up tightly in the belief that you cannot do anything to make life better. People blame outside forces for their boredom&#8230; their same old job, spouse, house&#8230; everything but themselves.</div>
<p> </p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>BOREDOM IS A CHOICE</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>Boredom may be an inevitable part of life, but it’s not a life sentence &#8212; it’s a signal that you need to find something interesting to do! That seemingly enlightened mantra <em>&#8220;it is what it is&#8221;</em> is, in fact, a clue that you are feeling stuck in your life or behavior &#8212; take it as a nudge to start looking to learn something from your boredom. It may mean that you have achieved your goals in one part of your life, so it is time to create change for yourself &#8212; perhaps search out new challenges that you could add to your job description or maybe even look for a whole new position. Or if your weekends are empty and dull because they’re no longer filled with your children’s sports and parties, it’s time to schedule new activities of your own.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Here’s the powerful part: Becoming aware of your boredom shows you the parts of life where you are letting things just exist rather than taking action to shape them to your liking. So now you can do something about it. Take an inventory of your current life&#8230; look for areas where you have become lazy, slightly depressed, indifferent and feel resigned about facing another day. These are all indicators of boredom and as such they are your signals to step in to start making change. <em>Note:</em> Lauren cautions that it is important to be careful not to confuse boredom with contentment. Contentment is when you truly are at peace with the way things are, whereas boredom leaves you unhappy with the status quo.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Finding ways to bring some zing into your life isn’t hard. When people consider making changes in their lives, they tend to think globally, as if they have to change <em>everything</em> &#8212; start a new career or ditch a spouse &#8212; <em>right now</em>. Not so, says Lauren. In fact the best way to get going is with very small changes, which may be as simple as adding air to the tires of your bike and going for a ride&#8230; getting in the car and heading out for a &#8220;field trip&#8221; to a town you’ve never visited&#8230; or even going food shopping in a very different sort of place, like a farmer’s market or a gourmet supermarket. If your sex life with your partner puts you to sleep, you can change that by taking small steps as well, says Lauren. &#8220;Make out in the car, ask for a kiss in the morning, do something new together each week &#8212; slowly inch your way back to where you would like this to be,&#8221; she suggests. Try something new or different to engage your imagination and emotions. Start by breaking the boredom of the moment, and then go on to making plans to break the cycle in more important areas where you feel stuck, such as work or your marriage overall.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Boredom is actually a valuable signal that can energize you and put you back in power. Pay attention to your &#8220;boredom radar&#8221; so that you spot it quickly, before it harms the quality of your life. Take responsibility, urges Lauren. &#8220;You’re the driver in your life &#8212; and if you have driven yourself into a ditch, admit you put yourself there and accept that you can get yourself out.&#8221; That’s a powerful thought indeed!</div>
<p> </p>
<h5>Source(s):</p>
<p>Lauren Zander, cofounder and chairman, The Handel Group, <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.thehandelgroup.com" target="_blank">www.thehandelgroup.com</a>.</h5>
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		<title>Get Fit in Just a Few Minutes</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joan Price Lack of time is a primary reason people give for failing to get the recommended 30 to 60 minutes of moderate intensity exercise most days of the week. Admittedly, it can be tough to find such a big chunk of time in your busy schedule. What helps: Instead of feeling compelled to cram an [...]]]></description>
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<p>Lack of time is a primary reason people give for failing to get the recommended 30 to 60 minutes of moderate intensity exercise most days of the week. Admittedly, it can be tough to find such a big chunk of time in your busy schedule.<br />
<strong><em>What helps:</em></strong> Instead of feeling compelled to cram an entire day’s worth of exercise into a single block of time, commit to fitting in little bursts of physical activity &#8212; two minutes, five minutes, 10 minutes &#8212; throughout the day. The more these &#8220;fitness minutes&#8221; add up, the more you reap the benefits of exercise, including improved health, better weight control, increased energy and a sense of well-being.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>IN THE MORNING&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>When your alarm clock rings &#8212; instead of pressing the snooze button, get up and use those extra minutes to do some gentle yoga poses.</li>
<li>While brushing your teeth &#8212; do calf raises. Standing, slowly rise onto the balls of your feet&#8230; hold for several seconds&#8230; return to the starting position. Repeat, continuing for two minutes.</li>
<li>In the shower &#8212; give your upper back muscles a workout. Squeeze your shoulder blades together&#8230; hold for five to 10 seconds&#8230; rest for a moment. Repeat 10 to 15 times.</li>
<li>While you style your hair &#8212; squeeze your buttocks muscles as hard as you can for 10 seconds&#8230; rest for several seconds&#8230; repeat five to 10 times.</li>
<li>When going down stairs &#8212; turn around at the bottom of the stairs and go back up, making one or more extra up-and-down trips.</li>
<li>As the coffee is brewing &#8212; hop on your right foot 10 times&#8230; then hop on the left foot. Repeat twice.</li>
<li>When letting the dog out &#8212; go with him for a short walk.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>OUT AND ABOUT&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>At the gas station &#8212; walk inside to pay rather than swiping a credit card at the pump. Instead of sitting in your car as the gas flows, clean all your windows, alternating the hand that holds the squeegee.</li>
<li>At every red light &#8212; do shoulder shrugs and roll your shoulders&#8230; repeatedly tighten and release your thigh muscles&#8230; rotate one wrist, then the other wrist.</li>
<li>When parking &#8212; instead of finding a spot close to your destination, get one a few blocks away.</li>
<li>Upon entering a store &#8212; if all the items you need will fit in a shopping basket, choose a basket instead of a cart.</li>
<li>As you shop &#8212; if you need a cart, do 10 bicep curls with weightier items &#8212; soup cans, juice jugs &#8212; before placing them in your cart. (If you feel silly doing this in public, do your bicep curls at home as you put the items in the pantry.)</li>
<li>While waiting in line &#8212; work your abdominal muscles. Suck in your belly and tighten your abs&#8230; hold for 10 seconds&#8230; relax. Repeat five to 10 times.</li>
<li>On a long car trip &#8212; stop every 50 miles or so, and take a walk around a rest stop or scenic area.</li>
<li>When traveling by bus, plane or train &#8212; walk up and down the aisle for at least five minutes every hour.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>AT YOUR DESK&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>While on the phone &#8212; march in place or pace around your office.</li>
<li>As you read e-mail &#8212; lift your right foot several inches off the floor&#8230; rotate your ankle clockwise several times, then counterclockwise&#8230; lower the foot. Repeat on the left side.</li>
<li>If you need to talk with a coworker &#8212; walk over to her office instead of phoning. When you get back to your own desk, before sitting down, hold your arms out to the side and circle them forward 15 times, then backward.</li>
<li>Each time you finish a task &#8212; do &#8220;chair dips.&#8221; With feet flat on the floor, place your hands on the armrests and push your body up (so your rear end hovers above the seat)&#8230; hold for several seconds&#8230; lower yourself back into the chair. Repeat 10 times. (Skip this if your chair has wheels.)</li>
<li>During your lunch break &#8212; take a walk through the office complex.</li>
<li>In the restroom &#8212; stand and reach for the sky for 30 seconds&#8230; then do 10 jumping jacks.</li>
<li>If you drop a pencil (or at least once a day) &#8212; do a variation on toe touches. Stand up, bend down, pick up the pencil, straighten up&#8230; drop the pencil again. Repeat 10 times.</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>IN THE EVENING&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Before starting dinner &#8212; take a quick ride around the neighborhood on your bicycle.</li>
<li>At the dinner table &#8212; do leg lifts. Sit with feet flat on the floor. Straighten your right leg to hold your right foot out in front of you&#8230; lift your right thigh a few inches off the chair and hold for several seconds&#8230; lower the foot. Repeat 10 times, then switch to the left leg.</li>
<li>Doing laundry &#8212; when you grab a basket of clothes, tighten abdominal muscles and, with your back straight, lift the basket from hip height to chest height five times.</li>
<li>Listening to the radio or a CD &#8212; dance around the room for one entire song. Repeat several times.</li>
<li>While watching TV &#8212; pop an exercise video or DVD in your player. Every time the TV show cuts to a commercial break, turn on the player and follow along with the workout for several minutes.</li>
<li>Climbing the stairs &#8212; take the steps two at a time. (Do not do this if you have balance problems.)</li>
<li>After washing your face &#8212; tilt your head slowly from side to side, feeling a good stretch along your neck&#8230; try to touch your chin to your chest to stretch the back of your neck.</li>
<li>Before climbing into bed &#8212; raise your arms overhead&#8230; tilt gently to the right, feeling the stretch along the left side of your torso&#8230; then tilt to the left. Repeat five times.</li>
<li>When you lie down &#8212; do knee hugs. Lie on your back with your knees bent, feet flat on the mattress. Raise one leg, place your hands behind the thigh and draw the leg toward your chest. Hold for 30 seconds&#8230; return to starting position. Repeat with the other leg.</li>
<li>Closing your eyes &#8212; breathe in and out deeply 10 time<br />
s, feeling grateful for all that your body was capable of doing during the day.</li>
</ul>
<h5>Source(s):</h5>
<h5>Bottom Line/Women’s Health interviewed Joan Price, a certified fitness instructor and motivational speaker based in Sebastopol, California, and author of six books, including &#8220;The Anytime, Anywhere Exercise Book&#8221; (iUniverse). She credits her commitment to exercise for her success in twice regaining the ability to walk and dance after two head-on car crashes. <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.joanprice.com" target="_blank">www.joanprice.com</a></h5>
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		<title>Aspirin, Yes? Aspirin, No?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 05:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;My doctor told me to start taking aspirin every day to protect my heart,&#8221; a neighbor said at a recent gathering. &#8220;My doctor told me to stop!&#8221; said another woman. &#8220;I’m so confused about the whole aspirin question that I don’t do anything,&#8221; added a third. It’s no wonder that women are baffled. Sometimes it [...]]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;My doctor told me to start taking aspirin every day to protect my heart,&#8221; a neighbor said at a recent gathering. &#8220;<em>My</em> doctor told me to <em>stop</em>!&#8221; said another woman. &#8220;I’m so confused about the whole aspirin question that I don’t do anything,&#8221; added a third.</p>
<p>It’s no wonder that women are baffled. Sometimes it seems that every new study suggesting additional protective effects from daily aspirin is quickly followed by one revealing yet another dangerous side effect. What’s more, the newest recommendations for women are different than those for men &#8212; and different than the previous guidelines for women.</p>
<p>To make sense of the latest research findings, I spoke with Suzanne Steinbaum, DO, director of the department of women and heart disease at the Heart and Vascular Institute of Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City. She explained why the question of whether or not to take aspirin is so complex, especially for women&#8230; and how to figure out what’s right for <em>you</em>.</p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>THE PUZZLE OF PROS VS. CONS</strong></div>
<p>Aspirin’s health benefits are primarily due to its ability to prevent blood from forming clots that can clog arteries. <em>But:</em> There also are many confounding factors to consider in weighing the risks and benefits. <em>Here’s how regular aspirin use affects a woman’s&#8230;</em></p>
<p><strong>Cardiovascular health.</strong> For women age 55 to 64 who have risk factors for heart disease, aspirin can prevent a first stroke&#8230; prevent a second heart attack&#8230; and reduce heart disease risk. For women age 65 and older, aspirin has these same benefits and <em>also</em> helps prevent a first heart attack.</p>
<p><strong><em>Confounding factors:</em></strong> Aspirin’s ability to protect against heart attacks is much stronger in men than in women. Also, aspirin generally provides no protection against stroke &#8212; and, in fact, may <em>increase</em> stroke risk &#8212; in women under age 55. That’s because younger women are more likely to experience a hemorrhagic stroke (caused by bleeding in the brain) than an ischemic stroke (caused by blood vessel blockage).</p>
<p><strong><em>Furthermore:</em></strong> New evidence suggests that people who take aspirin regularly have a greater incidence of <em>cerebral microbleeds</em>, which are tiny asymptomatic areas of bleeding in the brain. Although more research is needed to reveal the health consequences, such microbleeds could be harmful.</p>
<p><strong>Cancer risk.</strong> Recent studies link aspirin to a reduced risk for postmenopausal breast cancer and for cancers of the colon, pancreas, skin and ovaries. Among patients with breast cancer, aspirin may reduce the chance of recurrence and/or increase survival rates.</p>
<p><strong><em>Confounding factor:</em></strong> The evidence for aspirin’s potential as a cancer-prevention tool is not sufficient to recommend it for people at average risk for cancer.</p>
<p><strong>Eyes.</strong> Aspirin may have a modest benefit in preventing age-related macular degeneration, a common eye disease that destroys central vision.</p>
<p><strong><em>Confounding factor:</em></strong> One study reported that long-term use of aspirin increased the risk for cataracts by 55%.</p>
<p><strong>Gastrointestinal tract.</strong> There are no confounding factors here &#8212; because aspirin’s potential effects on the digestive system are all bad. <em>Reason:</em> Aspirin interferes with the mucous lining that protects the stomach and intestines from digestive acids. The most serious concern is gastrointestinal bleeding, which can involve sudden loss of blood and/or perforation of the digestive tract.</p>
<p><strong><em>Risk factors:</em></strong> Gastrointestinal bleeding risk increases with age&#8230; a history of upper gastrointestinal tract pain&#8230; and a history of ulcers.</p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>WHAT’S RIGHT FOR YOU?</strong></div>
<p>Use the following guidelines to get a sense of whether you might be a good candidate for preventive aspirin use, then discuss the issue with your physician. <em>Important:</em> Make sure that your doctor is aware of all medications and supplements that you are taking. Do <em>not</em> start or stop taking aspirin without your doctor’s OK.</p>
<p>Daily aspirin is probably <em>recommended</em> if you meet any of these conditions&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Have a history of heart attack.</li>
<li>Have a history of ischemic stroke (<em>not</em> hemorrhagic stroke) or blood clots.</li>
<li>Are between age 65 and 79 and are healthy.</li>
<li>Are between age 55 and 64 <em>and</em> have two or more of the following cardiovascular risk factors&#8230;</li>
</ul>
<blockquote><p> </p>
<ul>
<li>Atherosclerosis (thickening and hardening of the arteries).</li>
<li>Blood pressure above 130/85 mmHg.</li>
<li>HDL &#8220;good&#8221; cholesterol below 50 mg/dL.</li>
<li>LDL &#8220;bad&#8221; cholesterol above 160 mg/dL.</li>
<li>Decreased blood flow in the legs.</li>
<li>Waist measurement of more than 35 inches.</li>
<li>Diabetes.</li>
<li>Fasting blood sugar level above 100 mg/dL.</li>
<li>Sedentary lifestyle.</li>
<li>Cigarette use.</li>
<li>High stress levels.</li>
</ul>
<p> </p></blockquote>
<p>Daily aspirin should <em>be considered</em> if you meet any of these conditions&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Are under age 55 and have at least two of the cardiovascular risk factors listed above.</li>
<li>Are age 80 or older and have no risk factors (other than age) for gastrointestinal bleeding.</li>
<li>Have a history of colorectal cancer.</li>
</ul>
<p>Daily aspirin should probably <em>be avoided</em> if you meet any of these conditions&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Are under age 55 and have none of the cardiovascular risk factors listed above.</li>
<li>Are age 80 or older and have any risk factors for gastrointestinal bleeding.</li>
<li>Are allergic to aspirin.</li>
<li>Take a blood-thinning drug, such as <em>warfarin</em> (Coumadin).</li>
</ul>
<p>Take any other NSAID several times per week or more. Have uncontrolled high blood pressure&#8230; kidney or liver problems&#8230; a bleeding disorder, such as von Willebrand’s disease&#8230; or asthma that is exacerbated by aspirin. Have a history of gastrointestinal bleeding&#8230; ulcers&#8230; bleeding in the brain&#8230; or hemorrhagic stroke.</p>
<div style="text-align: center;">
<strong>IF YOU DO TAKE ASPIRIN&#8230;</strong></div>
<p>If you and your doctor decide that preventive aspirin is right for you, the standard daily dose is one low-dose or &#8220;baby&#8221; aspirin &#8212; that’s 75 milligrams (mg) to 81 mg. Though much lower than the dosage taken to ease pain and acute inflammation, it is all you need to get aspirin’s protective benefits. Higher doses taken daily or every other day offer no additional protection and carry greater risks.</p>
<p><em><strong>Best:</strong></em> Don’t use enteric-coated aspirin &#8212; it has not been shown to reduce gastrointestinal problems, may not be absorbed well into the bloodstream and costs more. Take aspirin with food to minimize the risk for gastrointestinal problems. After taking any blood pressure-lowering medication, wait at least one hour before taking your daily aspirin.</p>
<p><em><strong>Caution:</strong></em> When taking aspirin, the following dietary supplements should be avoided because they may increase the risk for bleeding &#8212; danshen, dong quai, evening primrose oil, feverfew, ginkgo, policosanol and willow bark.</p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>IF YOU DON’T TAKE ASPIRIN&#8230;</strong></div>
<p>If you do not need aspirin therapy or fall into the borderline category and want to try safer options for cardiovascular protection, Dr. Steinbaum recommends talking with your doctor about supplementing with 1,000 mg of fish oil daily, plus any or all of the following natural anticoagulants&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Bromelain (an enzyme found in pineapple) at 500 mg three times per day (do not use bromelain if you have a history of ulcers).</li>
<li>Nattokinase (an enzyme made from fermented soybeans) at 100 mg per day.</li>
<li>Vitamin E at 800 international units (IU) to 1,200 IU per day.</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<h5>Source: Suzanne Steinbaum, DO, director of the department of women and heart disease at the Heart and Vascular Institute, Lenox Hill Hospital, New York City, and a founder of Women’s Cardiac Care Network, a citywide public health program. She lectures nationally and on-air. <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.srsheart.com/" target="_blank">http://www.srsheart.com/</a></h5>
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		<title>Breast Cancer Update: Radiation or Not?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 05:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many women with breast cancer want to do anything and everything to fight the disease as aggressively as possible &#8212; in fact, more and more are choosing preventive mastectomies even when their cancer is the noninvasive kind that hasn’t spread. But sometimes less treatment may be the healthiest decision &#8212; for instance, new research pinpoints [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><div>Many women with breast cancer want to do anything and everything to fight the disease as aggressively as possible &#8212; in fact, more and more are choosing preventive mastectomies even when their cancer is the noninvasive kind that hasn’t spread. But sometimes less treatment may be the healthiest decision &#8212; for instance, new research pinpoints a group of women who will do just fine and, in fact, <em>far better</em> without adding radiation to their breast cancer treatment program.</div>
<p> </p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Who Needs Radiation Therapy?</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>The latest research, from The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center, shows that most early-stage breast cancer patients do <em>not</em> need radiation after their mastectomies because there is such a low risk for recurrence. But because what one woman sees as &#8220;low risk&#8221; can seem &#8220;too risky&#8221; to another, I contacted Henry Kuerer, MD, PhD, professor and training program director in M.D. Anderson’s department of surgical oncology and senior author of the study, to get some perspective.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Researchers reviewed the records of more than 1,000 women (average age 54) whose stage I or II breast cancer had spread to three or fewer lymph nodes. Each woman had had a mastectomy, 77% had also received postoperative chemotherapy and/or hormone therapy, and none had received postoperative radiation. After an average follow-up time of seven-and-a-half years, this group’s rate of recurrence was quite low &#8212; just 2.3%.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>&#8220;Radiation therapy has so many risks &#8212; we have to decide if it’s really a benefit when we consider that the risk for recurrence is so low,&#8221; Dr. Kuerer told me. The risks of radiation therapy include injury to the cardiopulmonary vessels, the neurological system, the skin and the musculoskeletal system, plus a higher risk for lung cancer, esophageal cancer and leukemia. Meanwhile, he said, surgery and chemotherapy for early-stage breast cancer are better and more effective than they used to be, so there’s less need to add radiation to the mix.</div>
<p> </p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Making a decision</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>Of course, some women really do need radiation treatment for their breast cancer. According to Dr. Kuerer, radiation is advised &#8212; and very effective in decreasing the risk for recurrence &#8212; for many breast cancer patients with advanced disease (stage III and IV), because their risk is far higher, between 10% and 15%. Radiation should also be strongly considered for women with tumors of more than 5 centimeters&#8230; more than four positive lymph nodes&#8230; positive margins (indicating that cancer cells have spread to the edge of the biopsied tissue) &#8230; and/or extra-capsular extension (a tumor growing from the lymph node into the underarm). Also, it should be considered for breast cancer patients under age 40 (who typically have an aggressive form of the disease), for patients with metastatic breast cancer and for those whose cancers are at borderline stages, such as between stage II and stage III.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Dr. Kuerer advises asking your doctor to assess your risk of recurrence, adding that it’s important to make sure he/she is using <em>current</em> data. Also, he suggests seeking another doctor’s opinion if you feel uncertain. &#8220;You need to feel comfortable with your team of doctors and confident that they understand the true risks and benefits of radiation therapy for you.&#8221; In the end, there’s no single &#8220;right&#8221; answer &#8212; just what’s right for you.</div>
<p> </p>
<h5>Source(s):Henry M. Kuerer, MD, PhD, professor and director breast surgical oncology training program, The University of Texas M.D. Anderson Cancer Center, Houston.</h5>
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		<title>Mad at Work? Don&#8217;t Have a Heart Attack</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 05:36:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a motto that many folks swear by at work &#8212; &#8220;Go along to get along&#8221; &#8212; and it suddenly looks like very bad advice. That’s because new research has found a link between suppressing workplace anger and increased risk for heart attack. In other words, holding anger inside at the office could literally kill [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><div>There’s a motto that many folks swear by at work &#8212; &#8220;Go along to get along&#8221; &#8212; and it suddenly looks like very bad advice. That’s because new research has found a link between suppressing workplace anger and increased risk for heart attack. In other words, holding anger inside at the office could literally kill you.</div>
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<div>Though this research began more than a decade ago, it has become particularly relevant in our difficult economic times. Workers may feel uneasy about the consequences of disagreement or having a misunderstanding with a boss or colleague. People may experience more job-related pressures but also feel less appreciated. We’ve heard many disturbing accounts of disgruntled workers reacting violently when things aren’t going the way they want them to&#8230; yet as this study makes clear, it’s not healthy to hold in your feelings all the time either.</div>
<p> </p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Mad Men at Work</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>Working with a group of 2,832 Swedish men, the researchers designed a questionnaire to quantify each participant’s typical style for handling angry feelings toward superiors or colleagues at work. A series of questions measured the likelihood that each participant would react &#8220;covertly&#8221; by suppressing his anger (walking away and taking some time to calm himself, but not taking up the issue again)&#8230; holding feelings inside and later developing physical symptoms such as a headache or stomachache&#8230; or venting his anger elsewhere. What they found is what makes gulping down your angry thoughts and words at work look very unwise. The more covert a participant’s style of handling workplace anger, the more likely he was to have had a heart attack in the period between 1992 (when the study began) and 2003 (when it ended).</div>
<p> </p>
<div>What does this mean for heart health? The researchers found that those who tended to handle conflict with a superior or coworker by suppressing their anger without saying anything (just &#8220;letting it pass&#8221;) had <em>double</em> the risk for heart attack or cardiac death compared with those who never or seldom behaved this way&#8230; and for those who held their anger inside and suffered physical distress later, the risk was <em>triple</em>.</div>
<p> </p>
<div><em>Note:</em> Though this study examined only men, study coauthor Tores Theorell, MD, PhD, professor emeritus and scientific advisor at the Stress Research Institute at Stockholm University, said that covert coping is actually even more common among women. The study was reported in the November 2009 issue of the <em>Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health</em>.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>OK &#8212; You’re Mad &#8212; What to Do?</strong></div>
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<div>The findings suggest that it’s unhealthy to suppress your emotions when you’re treated unfairly, say the researchers. But other research has shown that simply venting &#8212; expressing strong anger directly &#8212; actually can trigger a heart attack (although rarely), so this is not a healthy option either. I called a workplace-management consultant to ask about the healthiest ways to handle anger at work &#8212; both for your well-being and for your career.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>&#8220;Blowing up or holding in anger can both lead to problems, and people who suppress their anger eventually blow up anyway,&#8221; I heard from Emil F. Coccaro, MD, professor of psychiatry and director of the clinical neuroscience and psychopharmacology research unit in the department of psychiatry at The University of Chicago. Dr. Coccaro said that the goal is not just to get through a situation but &#8220;to be calm inside and out and to not feel as if the world is out to get you.&#8221;</div>
<p> </p>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Take a Time-Out</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>The best and simplest strategy for handling anger at work is one any modern parent will recognize &#8212; a &#8220;time-out.&#8221; &#8220;Excuse yourself and go for a walk. After you’ve calmed down, you’re more likely to have a discussion that’s rational and produces a good resolution,&#8221; Dr. Coccaro said. &#8220;If you try to discuss the situation when you’re angry, you’ll say things you’ll regret&#8230; and also you won’t get what you want.&#8221;</div>
<p> </p>
<div><em>Another cool-down strategy:</em> Do some deep-breathing exercises, or try counting slowly to 10. Then, he suggests, you should mentally review the situation when you’ve calmed down. Consider whether your anger is justified &#8212; was what the person said or did really so bad? Could it be that you were just feeling irritable that day? Or perhaps <em>you</em> need to take some responsibility&#8230; did your own actions trigger something you hadn’t foreseen? It’s important to try to understand the situation more completely.</div>
<p> </p>
<div>Everyone gets angry from time to time and sometimes with good reason. If you’re blowing up a few times a week, you may need to be evaluated for anger-management problems, Dr. Coccaro said. Treatment may involve talking with a therapist and sometimes even medication for a short while to help you learn to reframe your thinking about your interactions with others. Sometimes at least <em>some</em> of the problem lies within.</div>
<p> </p>
<h5>Source(s):Tores Theorell, MD, PhD, professor emeritus, Stress Research Institute, Stockholm University, Sweden.Emil F. Coccaro, MD, E.C. Manning Professor and Chairman, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral neuroscience, Biological Sciences Division, The University of Chicago.</h5>
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		<title>The Ultimate Cheapskate&#8217;s 5 Big Ways to Save $20,000 a Year</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 11:30:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jeff  Yeager Nearly all of the talk these days about economizing focuses on how to get what we want but pay less for it. It’s all about how to get more for less. For those of us who are longtime advocates of the &#8220;simple living&#8221; movement, it seems as if most Americans are missing what [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><p>Jeff  Yeager</p>
<p>Nearly all of the talk these days about economizing focuses on how to get what we want but pay less for it. It’s all about how to get more for less.<br />
For those of us who are longtime advocates of the &#8220;simple living&#8221; movement, it seems as if most Americans are missing what could be the golden opportunity of these tough times &#8212; coming to appreciate that less can often be more. In other words, we shouldn’t be worrying so much about &#8220;How can we afford it?&#8221; Instead, we should be asking ourselves, &#8220;Do we really need it?&#8221;<br />
Here are five lifestyle changes to consider. They may seem fairly radical to you when you first think about them &#8212; but if you adopt even one or two, you’ll not only save some serious money, you just might be happier in the end.<br />
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1. Cancel your cell phone.</strong><br />
<em><strong>Yearly savings: $1,000 per phone.</strong></em><br />
The idea is surprising, I know, but just consider it for a moment. Only 20 or so years ago, cell phones were virtually nonexistent, and the world seemed to work okay. Now cell phones are considered a necessity, even though surveys show that we dislike our cell phones more than any other device that we own (including the alarm clock). So if that’s truly how we feel, how can giving them up be a bad thing? The average cell-phone plan costs about $80 a month, and a study recently released by Utility Consumers’ Action Network found that the actual average cost of using a cell phone is more than $3 a minute if you don’t use up most of your minutes and about $1 per minute even if you do use all of your minutes. As a fairly successful author and national media personality, I am the poster child for this cause &#8212; I have never owned a cell phone, and I get by just fine.<br />
If you can’t imagine not having a cell phone, consider a prepaid phone plan. Watch for sales at such stores as Target, Wal-Mart and Radio Shack.<br />
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2. Get rid of your second or third car.</strong><br />
<em><strong>Yearly savings: $9,000.</strong></em><br />
The average American household now owns two or three vehicles. That compares to about one per household in 1960. AAA estimates that it costs $9,369 per year to own and operate a medium-sized sedan that is driven 15,000 miles annually. The national average cost per mile is 61 cents by the time you factor in depreciation, insurance, repairs, gas, taxes, etc. If your family owns more than one car, what’s the worst thing that could happen if you give up one? You could easily save thousands of dollars a year by sharing a single car, coordinating trips, taking public transportation and so on. And Mother Earth will thank you.<br />
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3. Prepare more meals at home.</strong><br />
<em><strong>Yearly savings: $2,000.</strong></em><br />
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the average US family spends $2,668 each year eating out. I would estimate that you could prepare the same meals at home for about 80% less, or an annual savings of roughly $2,134. The other upside is that old-fashioned family time around the dinner table may make a comeback. An article in <em>Archives of Pediatrics &amp; Adolescent Medicine</em> reported that frequent family meals are associated with a lower risk for smoking, drinking and using marijuana among adolescents, as well as a lower incidence of depressive symptoms and suicidal thoughts. And the kids were more likely to have better grades.<br />
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4. Wear out your clothing.</strong><br />
<em><strong>Yearly savings: $1,800 per family.</strong></em><br />
A small fraction of the clothing we throw away in the US is truly &#8220;worn out,&#8221; meaning that it’s threadbare, torn or badly stained. Many of us donate unwanted clothing to charity, but even charities have more donations than they can handle, and much of the clothing eventually ends up being thrown away. The problem is that we rarely wear out our clothing &#8212; or much of anything else &#8212; these days. According to some government reports, the average American family spends roughly $1,800 on shoes and clothing per year. Clearly most of us have more than enough in our closets to go for six months to a year, or even longer, without needing to buy anything new.<br />
<strong><br />
5. Give up college room and board.</strong><br />
<em><strong>Yearly savings: $9,000 per student.</strong></em><br />
The average cost of student room and board at colleges and universities is about $9,000 per year. A generational shift has occurred here in the US over the past few decades when it comes to kids living with their parents while they attend college. Back in my college days (the 1970s), lots of us &#8212; myself included &#8212; lived with our parents and attended a local university or community college. Today that arrangement is fairly rare &#8212; it’s just not &#8220;cool&#8221; to live with your folks. Of course, in my day, student loans were uncommon, in part because we didn’t need to borrow money to pay for room and board. The irony is that these days, many kids graduate with so much debt &#8212; tens of thousands of dollars in student loans &#8212; that they have no choice but to move back home with their parents after college. Now, back in my day, living with your parents <em>after</em> you graduated really was uncool.</p>
<h5>Source(s):<br />
Bottom Line/Personal interviewed Jeff Yeager, dubbed &#8220;The Ultimate Cheapskate&#8221; by NBC’s Today show. Yeager honed his cheapskating skills during 25 years of working with underfunded nonprofit agencies. He lives in Accokeek, Maryland, and is author of &#8220;The Ultimate Cheapskate’s Road Map to True Riches&#8221; (Broadway). <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.ultimatecheapskate.com" target="_blank">www.ultimatecheapskate.com</a>.</h5>
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		<description><![CDATA[David Servan-Schreiber, MD, PhD University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine   At any given time, the average person might have thousands of cancer cells in his/her body. Individually, these abnormal cells are harmless, but any one of them could potentially proliferate and form a mass of cells (a tumor) that damages normal tissues and can spread [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><div>David Servan-Schreiber, MD, PhD</div>
<div>University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine</div>
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<div>At any given time, the average person might have thousands of cancer cells in his/her body. Individually, these abnormal cells are harmless, but any one of them could potentially proliferate and form a mass of cells (a tumor) that damages normal tissues and can spread to other parts of the body. About one-third of us eventually will get full-fledged cancer.</p>
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<div>Often people who get cancer have created impairments in their natural defenses, allowing cancer cells to survive and proliferate. About 85% of all cancers are caused by environmental and lifestyle factors. We can’t always control our environments, but we can control what we eat. Diet is one key factor that determines who gets cancer and who doesn’t.</div>
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<div><strong><em>Example:</em></strong> Asian men have just as many precancerous microtumors in the prostate gland as American men, yet they are as much as 60 times less likely to develop prostate cancer. It’s not a coincidence that their diets are far healthier, on average, than those consumed by men in the US. Asian men eat far more fruits and vegetables than Americans and relatively little red meat. They also tend to eat more fish and soy foods, and they drink more tea, especially green tea. These and other dietary factors allow their immune systems and other natural defenses to prevent cancer cells from proliferating.</div>
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<div><strong><em>My story:</em></strong> I was a physician in Pittsburgh when I was first diagnosed with a brain tumor in 1992. With the benefit of hindsight &#8212; and years of research into the origins and development of cancer &#8212; I have come to understand that my previous lifestyle, particularly my poor diet, fostered a procancer environment. For example, a typical lunch for me was chili con carne, a plain bagel and a can of Coke.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>CAUSES OF CANCER</strong></div>
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<div>It can take years for cancer cells to turn into tumors &#8212; assuming that they ever do. This lag time means that we have many opportunities to create an anticancer environment in our bodies.</div>
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<div>There are three main factors that promote the development of cancer&#8230;</div>
<ul>
<li><strong>Weakened immunity.</strong> The immune system normally patrols the body for bacteria and viruses, as well as for cancer cells. When it spots something foreign, it dispatches a variety of cells, including natural killer cells, to destroy the foreign substance. In people who eat an unhealthy diet &#8212; not enough produce, too much alcohol, very little fish and so on &#8212; the immune system works less efficiently. This means that cancer cells can potentially slip under the radar and eventually proliferate.</li>
<li><strong>Inflammation.</strong> Millions of Americans have subclinical chronic inflammation. It doesn’t cause symptoms, but it can lead to heart disease and cancer. Chronic inflammation can be caused by infection, a diet low in antioxidant nutrients and even emotional stress. It’s accompanied by the release of <em>cytokines</em> and other inflammatory chemicals. Inflammation also prevents the immune system from working efficiently.</li>
<li><strong>Angiogenesis.</strong> Cancer cells, like other cells in the body, need blood and nourishment to survive. They send out chemical signals that stimulate the growth of blood vessels that carry blood to and from the cancer.</li>
</ul>
<div>This process is called <em>angiogenesis</em> &#8212; and it can be strongly influenced by what we eat.</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong><em>Example:</em></strong> People who eat no more than 12 ounces of red meat weekly can reduce their overall risk for cancer by 30%. Red meat stimulates the release of inflammatory chemicals that inhibit <em>apoptosis</em>, the genetically programmed cell death that prevents uncontrolled growth.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>CANCER FIGHTERS</strong></div>
<div></div>
<div>The best cancer-fighting foods&#8230;</div>
<ul>
<li><strong>Fatty fish.</strong> The omega-3 fatty acids in fish reduce inflammation. Oncologists in Scotland have measured inflammatory markers in the blood of cancer patients since the 1990s. They have found that patients with the lowest levels of inflammation are twice as likely to live through the next several years as patients who have more inflammation.</li>
</ul>
<div>Laboratory studies indicate that a high-fish diet can reduce the growth of lung, breast, colon, prostate and kidney cancers. And naturally, people who eat more fish tend to eat less red meat.</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong><em>Important:</em></strong> The larger fatty fish, such as tuna, are more likely to be contaminated with mercury and other toxins. The best sources of omega-3s are smaller fatty fish, such as sardines, anchovies and small mackerel.</div>
<ul>
<li><strong>Low-glycemic carbohydrates.</strong> The glycemic index measures the effects of the carbohydrates in foods on blood glucose levels. Foods with a high-glycemic index, such as white bread and table sugar, cause a rapid rise in insulin as well as a rise in <em>insulin-like growth factor</em> (IGF). IGF stimulates cell growth, including the growth of cancer cells. Both insulin and IGF also promote inflammation.</li>
</ul>
<div>Data from the Harvard Nurses’ Health Study indicate that people who eat the most high-glycemic foods (these same people tend to be sedentary and overweight) are 260% more likely to get pancreatic cancer and 80% more likely to get colorectal cancer.</div>
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<div><strong><em>Recommended:</em></strong> Unprocessed carbohydrates that are low on the glycemic scale, such as whole-grain breakfast cereals and breads (with whole wheat, barley, oats, flaxseeds, etc.)&#8230; cooked whole grains, such as millet, quinoa and barley&#8230; and vegetables, such as broccoli and cauliflower.</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong><em>Also important:</em></strong> Reduce or eliminate refined sugar as well as honey.</div>
<div></div>
<div><strong><em>Better:</em></strong> Agave nectar, available at most health-food stores. Extracted from cactus sap, it’s sweeter than sugar or honey, yet it has a glycemic index four to five times lower. You can use agave nectar just as you would sugar or honey &#8212; by adding it to cereals, tea and so on. Because of the liquid content of the syrup, you’ll generally want to reduce the amount of other liquids in baked goods. Substitute three-quarter cup of agave nectar per one cup of any other sweetener.</div>
<ul>
<li><strong>Green tea.</strong> Between three and five cups daily can significantly reduce your cancer risk. A chemical in green tea, <em>epigallocatechin gallate</em> (EGCG), inhibits angiogenesis. Green tea also contains <em>polyphenols</em> and other chemical compounds that reduce inflammation and activate liver enzymes that break down and eliminate potential carcinogens. In men who already have prostate cancer, consuming five cups or more of green tea daily has been associated with reduced risk of progressing to advanced cancer by 50%. In women with certain types of breast cancer, three cups daily reduced relapses by 30%. Because black tea is fermented, it has a lower concentration of polyphenols and is less protective than green tea.</li>
<li><strong>Soy foods.</strong> The isoflavones in tofu, soy milk, edamame (green soybeans) and other soy foods help prevent breast cancer, particularly in women who started eating soy early in life. These compounds, known as <em>phytoestrogens</em>, have estrogen-like effects. They occupy the same cellular receptors as the body’s estrogen yet are only about one-hundredth as active. This means that they may slow the development of estrogen-dependent tumors.</li>
</ul>
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<div><strong><em>Recommended:</em></strong> Three servings of soy per week &#8212; but only for women who are cancer-free. Avoid soy if you have or had cancer &#8212; there’s some concern that the estrogen-like compounds in soy might promote tumor growth in women who have a type of breast cancer that is sensitive to estrogen’s effects.</div>
<ul>
<li><strong>Turmeric.</strong> No other food ingredient has more powerful anti-inflammatory effects. In laboratory studies, the active ingredient <em>curcumin</em> in the spice turmeric inhibits the growth of many different cancers. It helps prevent angiogenesis and promotes the death of cancer cells.</li>
</ul>
<div>In India, people consume an average of one-quarter to one-half teaspoon of turmeric daily. They experience one-eighth as many lung cancers as Westerners of the same age&#8230; one-ninth as many colon cancers&#8230; and one-fifth as many breast cancers.</div>
<ul>
<li><strong>Asian mushrooms,</strong> such as shiitake, maitake and enokitake. They’re available in most supermarkets and gourmet stores and are one of the most potent immune system stimulants. Among people who eat a lot of these mushrooms, the rate of stomach cancer is 50% lower than it is among those who don’t eat them. One to two half-cup servings weekly probably is enough to have measureable effects.</li>
<li><strong>Berries.</strong> Berries contain <em>ellagic acid</em>, which strongly inhibits angiogenesis. Aim for one-half cup per day.</li>
<li><strong>Dark chocolate.</strong> One ounce contains twice as many polyphenols as a glass of red wine and almost as much as a cup of green tea. Laboratory studies indicate that these compounds slow the growth of cancer cells. Look for a chocolate with more than 70% cocoa. The &#8220;lighter&#8221; milk chocolates don’t contain adequate amounts of polyphenols &#8212; and the dairy component of milk chocolate blocks the absorption of polyphenols.</li>
</ul>
<h5>Source(s):</h5>
<h5>Bottom Line/Personal interviewed David Servan-Schreiber, MD, PhD, a neuroscientist and clinical professor of psychiatry at University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine. He is cofounder of the university’s Center for Integrative Medicine and author of &#8220;Anticancer: A New Way of Life&#8221; (Viking). <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.anticancerbook.com" target="_blank">www.anticancerbook.com</a>.</h5>
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		<description><![CDATA[In our computerized world, crime gets ever more conceptual&#8230; as with medical identity theft. This is a type of fraud that occurs when someone &#8220;steals&#8221; the identity of a person with health insurance and then uses his/her name &#8212; and, in the latest twist, insurance coverage &#8212; to get treatment that can include doctor visits, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><div>In our computerized world, crime gets ever more conceptual&#8230; as with medical identity theft. This is a type of fraud that occurs when someone &#8220;steals&#8221; the identity of a person with health insurance and then uses his/her name &#8212; and, in the latest twist, insurance coverage &#8212; to get treatment that can include doctor visits, drugs and even hospital stays.</div>
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<div>While insurance companies bear the financial brunt, this is by no means &#8220;not your problem.&#8221; If your medical identity is stolen, you and your family may pay a <em>very </em>high price. Your insurance coverage can get used up&#8230; unpaid bills can ravage your credit rating&#8230; and dangerous incorrect information can enter your medical files, making it difficult for health-care workers to accurately diagnose and treat you in the future &#8212; especially in emergencies when you might not have a chance to speak with them first.</div>
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<div>There’s another kind of health insurance fraud that you have to be alert to as well &#8212; in which, appallingly, the criminal is your doctor. With this type of fraud, physicians may fabricate diagnoses&#8230; engage in a practice called &#8220;upcoding&#8221; (falsely billing for a higher-priced treatment than was provided)&#8230; or &#8220;unbundling&#8221; (billing each stage of treatment as if it were a separate procedure). These aren’t victimless crimes either &#8212; such fraud boosts the cost of health care, translating into higher premiums and out-of-pocket payments and reduced benefits or coverage.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Under the Radar</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>Health insurance fraud is a fast-growing and highly underreported type of white-collar crime, warns Eduard F. Goodman, JD, LLM, an expert in privacy and personal data protection law and chief privacy officer at Identity Theft 911, LLC in Scottsdale, Arizona. The most recent estimate from the National Health Care Anti-Fraud Association is that about 3% of annual health-care spending in the US goes down the drain in the form of fraud, resulting in costs of about $70 billion. Goodman told me that seniors, in particular, are frequent targets of health insurance fraud, especially Medicare schemes. Yet if this happens to you, you likely won’t even know &#8212; until perhaps much later when something weird occurs, like you get a collection notice in the mail for treatment you didn’t have or you are turned down for a loan because your credit rating plummeted due to unpaid medical debts incurred in your name by an imposter. Messes like these can take years to unravel.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>How to Avoid Getting Ripped Off</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>Goodman and I discussed what might be some red flags that someone has stolen, or is trying to steal, your medical identity&#8230;</div>
<ul>
<li>You are offered a &#8220;free&#8221; medical screening or equipment (such as a wheelchair, walker or diabetic supplies) &#8212; all you have to do is provide your Social Security number, Medicare information and/or health insurance policy number. Sometimes free medical offers are legitimate &#8212; for example, your community hospital may offer periodic free or discounted health screenings, such as mammograms or blood pressure tests. Be suspicious, however, of such offers at or near commercial settings such as shopping malls or health clubs &#8212; they may be &#8220;rolling lab&#8221; schemes in which scammers skip from mall to mall or gym to gym, administer tests (which may themselves be bogus), then bill them to your insurance or Medicare. And, as for that free wheelchair, why would a company simply give you medical equipment? Once an unscrupulous company has your signature, it can try to bill Medicare for equipment or services you do not need or do not receive.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>You (and/or your insurance company) are charged for services that were not provided. Crooked physicians involve themselves in schemes to obtain &#8220;reimbursement&#8221; for medical visits you never made or tests you never had. They assume that you won’t look closely at your statements and that if you do, you won’t know one treatment from another. You can protect yourself by keeping careful records of all medical appointments and procedures and comparing them with statements from your doctor and insurer. If you detect a discrepancy, immediately contact your insurance company to challenge it. Many companies offer ways to report suspected fraud on their Web sites.</li>
</ul>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Victim-Proof Yourself</strong></div>
<p> </p>
<div>Goodman gave advice on how to minimize the likelihood that you will become a victim of health insurance fraud&#8230;</div>
<ul>
<li>Request copies of your current medical files from all medical providers. You have a legal right to these documents under HIPAA (the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996). Carefully review them and correct any false or incorrect information.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Be careful with your Social Security, Medicare and insurance policy information &#8212; these are the tools thieves use to steal medical identities. Though you can do little to keep them from gaining access by hacking into a company’s database or breaking into a doctor’s office, you should protect this information in every way you can. Shred all documents with these numbers so that they can’t get them from your trash.<em>A common trick:</em> Calling and requesting a policy number or other private information because it is necessary &#8220;in order to process a payment or claim.&#8221; If someone wants your Social Security number or other such information, always ask why. Sometimes there are legitimate reasons &#8212; for instance, perhaps a hospital requires this information to be paid for treating you. In that event, verify that it is a legitimate request by asking for the caller’s name &#8212; then you can call the hospital and ask to speak to that person. If you discover that there’s no such person, promptly report the incident to your insurance company (as you should with any suspected fraud).</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Never sign a blank insurance form. Fill out, sign and date only one claim form at a time. Giving blanket authorization to providers to bill for services can lead to overcharges and other abuses. Keep copies of all such forms.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Don’t agree to let your health-care provider keep your credit card number on file. When you conduct medical transactions online &#8212; such as refilling prescriptions or purchasing contact lenses &#8212; Goodman advises minimizing data exposure by typing in your information each time you order. When you trust your credit/debit card data to these institutions, you are also trusting that they are safeguarding it adequately, and all too often that is not the case.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Use care when disposing of confidential information since any private information can be used to get more. Shred ATM and credit card receipts and take security measures with stored paper documents, computers, iPods, PDAs, smart phones, computer printers and other electronic devices that can store personal data.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Do not assume that all is well because you don’t owe money. Once every few months, make a point of sitting down to compare your medical bills with the Explanation of Benefits (EOB) statements from your insurer. Follow up on any discrepancies, such as services you did not get, office visits you did not make or medical equipment you did not use.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Always scrutinize your monthly credit card statements, including health-care charges. Promptly report any unauthorized transactions to the issuer and any instance of suspected fraud to your insurer.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Monitor your credit report. Request a free copy from each of the three nationwide consumer credit-reporting agencies at least once a year and review it for suspicious entries. If you detect any, challenge them. If necessary, file a police report. To get your report, go to <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.annualcreditreport.com" target="_blank">http://www.annualcreditreport.com</a>or call 877-322-8228.</li>
</ul>
<h5>Source(s):Eduard F. Goodman, JD, LLM, CIPP, chief privacy officer, Identity Theft 911, LLC, Scottsdale, Arizona. Goodman is an expert in privacy and personal data protection, wireless networking liabilities and cyber-terrorism. He served as the 2008-2009 Section chair of the State Bar of Arizona’s Internet, E-Commerce &amp; Technology Law Practice Section.</h5>
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		<title>Getting Back to Life After the Death of a Spouse</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 15:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Phyllis Kosminsky, PhD Center for Hope The death of a spouse is among the greatest sources of grief. We not only lose the person who may be closest to us, we lose the person who most likely helped us function in the world and on whom we depended to help us through life’s traumas. The [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><div>Phyllis Kosminsky, PhD</div>
<div>Center for Hope</div>
<p>The death of a spouse is among the greatest sources of grief. We not only lose the person who may be closest to us, we lose the person who most likely helped us function in the world and on whom we depended to help us through life’s traumas. The loss of a spouse might leave us feeling more alone and helpless than we ever have felt before.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">MIXED EMOTIONS</p>
<p>Naturally there are feelings of sadness, but surviving spouses have other feelings as well&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>A sense of unreality.</strong> In the weeks after a spouse’s death, it is hard to accept the fact that the person with whom we have shared our life is gone. Many surviving spouses catch themselves momentarily forgetting that their partner has died. It might cross their minds to call the spouse to say they are going to be late&#8230; or to buy his/her favorite food at the market.</p>
<p><strong>Difficulty concentrating.</strong> It is common for surviving spouses to experience a sense of disorganization and difficulty concentrating in the weeks or months after the death. They might feel lethargic and uninterested in going out or doing anything at all.</p>
<p><strong>Anger.</strong> Surviving spouses sometimes are surprised to discover they feel angry, even, at the departed spouse for dying.</p>
<p><strong>Relief.</strong> In some cases, a spouse’s death brings feelings of relief, particularly if the spouse who passed away had been suffering or had come to require huge amounts of care.</p>
<p><strong>Guilt.</strong> When surviving spouses feel anger or relief, they often feel guilty about these feelings. Some surviving spouses also feel guilty because they imagine that they could have treated their partner better during the marriage.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">GRIEVING</p>
<p>Some books about loss discuss the grieving process as if one stage of grief leads predictably to the next. In reality, grief does not always progress according to a preset pattern. Some surviving spouses find that life begins to return to normal within a few months, while for others, it takes years. <em>The grieving process tends to take a long time when&#8230;</em></p>
<p><strong>Each spouse had a clearly defined role</strong> in the marriage, and the surviving spouse must develop new skills to perform the tasks that the departed  partner once handled.</p>
<p><strong>The spouse’s death involved extended or significant suffering.</strong> Seeing a spouse in agony can cause posttraumatic stress. Professional counseling can help surviving spouses cope with this.</p>
<p><strong>The death is sudden or unexpected.</strong> In this situation, the surviving spouse must come to terms with the loss of a partner as well as the shattering of illusions that the world is safe.</p>
<p>There is no &#8220;correct&#8221; amount of time to grieve the death of a spouse. Grief usually eases as time passes. You feel more hopeful and more like yourself six months after the death than you did three months after&#8230; and even better three months after that. (Of course, there will be good days and bad days throughout.) If this is not the case, it might be time to seek counseling.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">COPING</p>
<p>There is no way to avoid the grief you will feel following the loss of your spouse &#8212; it would not even be healthy to try  to avoid it. There are, however, some ways to keep the grieving process moving in the right direction&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Acknowledge the range of your feelings.</strong> Some widows and widowers try to ignore any emotions they feel after their spouses’ deaths, aside from grief and sadness. They think it isn’t reasonable to feel anger, relief or guilt. If you deny yourself the right to experience these emotions, you will find it difficult to deal with your grief as well.</p>
<p><em><strong>Example:</strong></em> A woman was mired in grief five years after the death of her husband. She was unwilling to admit to herself that she was angry with him for being financially irresponsible. Only when she came to terms with this anger was she able to move beyond her grief.</p>
<p><strong>Put your feelings into words.</strong> Talking about loss can help you cope. Speak with a friend or a counselor &#8212; or join a bereavement support group. A hospital, hospice or religious organization often can help you find a group in your area.</p>
<p>If you prefer not to share your feelings verbally, write them in a journal or in an unsent letter to the departed spouse.</p>
<p><strong>Remain connected with friends.</strong> It is normal to want privacy following the death of a spouse &#8212; but don’t remain isolated longer than you must. As soon as you feel you could manage to go out and spend time with friends, do so &#8212; do not wait until you actually want to go out. Spending time with other people gives you an opportunity to focus on something other than your loss, reducing the odds that you will be pulled into the downward spiral of depression.</p>
<p>If you do not feel ready to resume close relationships, pick activities that let you interact with other people but that keep the chitchat to a minimum, such as playing tennis or going to a movie.</p>
<p><strong>Balance activity and free time.</strong> Exercise, join clubs, do volunteer work or engage in other activities that get you out of the house and get your mind off your loss as soon as you feel able to do so. Do not become so busy that you have no free time to reflect, however. Try to find at least a few minutes of unscheduled time each day when you can relax, either at home or outside taking a walk.</p>
<p><strong>Get enough sleep.</strong> Schedule enough sleep time that you wake feeling rested. That might mean more than eight hours a night at first. If you’re having trouble sleeping, talk with your doctor. Sleep deprivation makes any kind of emotional healing that much more difficult.</p>
<p><strong>Give yourself what your spouse would have given you.</strong> Surviving spouses sometimes feel cheated out of long-planned vacations and promised gifts when their partners pass away. Giving these gifts to yourself can help you overcome these emotions. Example: Take that long-planned trip to Europe with a close friend.</p>
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<p><em><strong>Bottom Line/Personal</strong></em> interviewed Phyllis Kosminsky, PhD, a clinical social worker specializing in grief, loss and trauma at the Darien, Connecticut-based Center for Hope/Family Centers, a nonprofit organization. She also is in private practice in Pleasantville, New York, and Norwalk, Connecticut. She is author of <em>Getting Back to Life When Grief Won’t Heal</em> (McGraw-Hill). <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.familycenters.org" target="_blank">www.familycenters.org</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;You are what you eat&#8221; has been a catch phrase since I was a child&#8230; but new research from Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York City suggests it’s not only what you eat but how hot you cook it that matters. Subjecting certain foods to prolonged high heat &#8212; not only for frying, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="KonaBody"><p>&#8220;You are what you eat&#8221; has been a catch phrase since I was a child&#8230; but new research from Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York City suggests it’s not only what you eat but <em>how hot</em> you cook it that matters. Subjecting certain foods to prolonged high heat &#8212; not only for frying, but also for grilling, roasting, broiling or baking &#8212; creates toxic, inflammatory particles. These, in turn, cause the oxidation and inflammation in the body that are associated with such diseases as diabetes, heart disease, kidney disease, Alzheimer’s disease and others.</p>
<p>Called <em>advanced glycation end products</em> (AGEs), these toxic particles adhere to the arteries, kidneys, brain and joints, where they heighten inflammation. Our typical Western diet, heavy on meat and processed foods and light on plant-based foods, is believed by many scientists to contain at least three times more AGEs than is considered safe.</p>
<p>Good News from this Study</p>
<p>It’s always exciting when research reveals a way to <em>avoid</em> a common health problem &#8212; and this new study does just that. According to the researchers, you can achieve dramatic and quick benefit &#8212; within just days &#8212; by reducing your intake of AGE-containing foods. Doing this decreases the body’s level of inflammation and helps restore its defenses against disease.</p>
<p>The study divided 350-plus participants into three groups &#8212; healthy adults between the ages of 18 and 45&#8230; an older healthy group, all past age 60&#8230; and nine patients with chronic kidney disease (the kidneys are believed to be especially sensitive to AGEs). Participants were randomly assigned to eat either a regular Western diet in which foods were grilled, fried or baked (in other words, loaded with AGEs) or what the researchers called &#8220;the AGE-less diet,&#8221; which included the same foods, only poached, boiled or steamed so that they contained only about half as many AGEs. The two diets were similar in calories and nutrients. After four months, all participants on the AGE-less diet showed a 60% decline in blood levels of AGEs as well as in several other inflammation markers. According to the study’s lead author, Helen Vlassara, MD, professor and director of the division of experimental diabetes and aging at Mount Sinai, this indicates that your actual chronological age may not be as significant a factor in aging and health as the AGEs in your food. <em>A finding that’s even more impressive:</em> The patients with kidney disease had a similarly substantial reduction after just <em>one month</em> on the AGE-less diet.</p>
<p>The Heat Is On&#8230;</p>
<p>I asked Dr. Vlassara to explain to me how the AGEs get into foods. They develop as a chemical reaction when heat is combined with protein and different sugars, she said &#8212; and she noted that meat-rich diets are especially bad, since meats contain high levels of easily oxidizable fat and protein.</p>
<p>There is a third point that is crucial to understand &#8212; which is that removing all visible fat when you cook meats doesn’t solve the problem. All cells in meats contain not only fat and proteins, but also sugars &#8212; some more reactive than others. Therefore, exposure to high heat will still cause AGEs to form in meat at much higher levels than in starch even if you cut away the visible fat. In fact, Dr. Vlassara told me that when you see meat brown while cooking, what you’re witnessing is the rapid reaction among proteins, fats and those reactive sugars to the heat. And, since they are also animal products, when they are cooked, full-fat milk and cheese also develop high levels of AGEs.</p>
<p>Even worse, manufacturers often add AGE-containing flavor-enhancers or coloring (such as caramel) to processed and packaged foods. You may be surprised to learn that a major offender in this category is dark-colored soda. Generally speaking, fast foods and processed/packaged foods also tend to be high in AGEs, which gives us yet another reason to avoid them.</p>
<p>Avoiding AGEs</p>
<p>The good news is, it’s not all that difficult to reduce the amount of AGEs in your diet, Dr. Vlassara said. It just requires making some modest changes in the way you prepare food. <em>Her suggestions&#8230;</em></p>
<p><strong>Meats</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Marinate in an acid-based mixture (such as vinegar or lemon juice) before cooking, which helps reduce the amount of AGEs produced by heat. <em>Note:</em> Avoid marinades containing sugar, such as most barbecue and teriyaki sauces.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Aim to serve meats rare to medium rare if possible &#8212; for instance, cooking pork to just beyond pink. This is admittedly a balancing act &#8212; you want to cook as briefly as possible to minimize development of AGEs, but undercooking carries its own set of dangers.</li>
</ul>
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<li>To achieve a brown finish to meats, Dr. Vlassara suggests cooking on your stovetop with a cover to conserve moisture, and then placing the meat under the broiler for just a few minutes at the end.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Use as little fat as possible &#8212; as Dr. Vlassara points out, even healthy olive oil oxidizes at high heat.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Water inhibits the formation of AGEs, so poaching, stewing, steaming or even boiling proteins is best (including fish and eggs).</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Dairy and Other Foods</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Avoid bringing dairy products to high temperatures &#8212; for instance, when using milk in sauces or when melting cheese under a broiler. Dr. Vlassara said the less time these foods cook, the better. She added that lower temperatures are preferable, as is increased distance from the heat source.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Brief microwaving produces a lower level of AGEs than broiling, grilling or stovetop cooking, so this is a great way to cook liquids.</li>
</ul>
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<li>Plant-based proteins also create dangerous levels of AGEs when subject to very high heat for long periods &#8212; so be aware that there are dangers to even seemingly healthy foods like broiled tofu or roasted nuts.</li>
</ul>
<p>what about restaurant food?</p>
<p>Fortunately, the increasingly popular Mediterranean Diet uses lots of foods with low AGEs (including fruits, vegetables, beans and whole grains), so it once again ranks among the healthiest ways that you can eat. This not only provides a good framework for eating at home, it also suggests a wide variety of delicious, healthful, low-AGE dishes that you can order in restaurants. But Dr. Vlassara noted that cooking even these foods at high heat with low hydration is problematic, so there’s no way around it &#8212; cooking at high temperatures is not so hot for your health.</p>
<h5>Source(s):</p>
<p>Helen Vlassara, MD, is professor of geriatrics, medicine and molecular medicine, director, division of experimental diabetes and aging, department of geriatric and palliative medicine, Mount Sinai School of Medicine, New York City.</h5>
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